What Things Should I Avoid During My Florida Divorce?

Divorce is a very difficult experience. You will have to manage your emotions, while also handling legal tasks and proceedings. During this difficult and confusing time, it is easy to make mistakes that have consequences for many years to come. Below, one of our Tampa divorce attorneys explains the most common mistakes to avoid during divorce.

• Do Not Let Your Emotions Guide You During Divorce

 It is natural to experience many emotions when ending your marriage. While you cannot avoid these emotions entirely, it is important that you do not allow them to guide you through the process. Acting emotionally can lead to making bad decisions, and even violating certain laws. For example, you may hide an asset you know is important to your spouse, but this is against the law and you could face legal penalties.

• Do Not Violate Court Orders During a Divorce

There are many issues you will have to resolve during your divorce case. Child custody, child support, and alimony are just a few of these. At the beginning of your divorce case, a judge may issue temporary orders to settle these matters and avoid confusion until the divorce is finalized.

While these orders may be temporary, it is critical that you follow them. Violating court orders is a very serious matter and again, you will face a number of penalties and not following court orders will not endear you to the judge on your case.

• Do Not Agree to an Unfair Settlement During a Divorce

Divorce is an unpleasant process so it is natural to want it to be over as soon as possible. Even so, it is important not to rush the process simply to get it over with. Doing so can result in an unfair settlement that will impact you for many years to come and possibly forever. Instead, try to remain patient so that your rights are protected and so you can reach a settlement that is fair to you and all parties. You will regret signing something which is not to your benefit, just to get it over with.  Some mistakes cannot be changed.

• Do Not Be Nasty to your Spouse During a Divorce
  

Whether you want to or not, you will have to communicate with your spouse during the divorce process. As with everything else during these proceedings, there is a right way and a wrong way to do this. Always maintain an open line of communication and treat your spouse in a civil manner when speaking with them. This can help you reach an agreement out of court, which will save you time and money.  If necessary, communicate via email or text.  It is best to have it in writing so you will have a record or the “conversation.”

• Try Your Best Not to Date During a Divorce

Some people are excited at the thought of getting back onto the dating scene after divorce. However, it is important that you do not start a new relationship until your divorce is final. Dating too soon can have a negative impact on your divorce case, particularly if your spouse argues that you are spending marital funds that have not yet been divided on your new partner.

There is no need to add your spouse’s jealousy to the mix as that can definitely complicate his or her willingness to agree to a resolution.

• Not Working with an Experienced, Top Notch Tampa Divorce Attorney

Divorce is a legal process and you need strong representation when going through it. At All Family Law Group, P.A., our Tampa divorce attorneys can provide the sound advice you need, ensure your rights are upheld at all times, and help you obtain the best outcome possible. Call us today at 813-672-1900 or fill out our online form to schedule a free consultation and to learn more about your case.  Se habla Español.

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