Three Common Misconceptions About Divorce

Divorce is often portrayed in television shows and movies, but these are not usually accurate representations of family law. In fact, the media usually exaggerates and embellishes legal procedures, which can make it difficult to distinguish between myth and reality. Below, one of our Tampa divorce attorneys outlines three of the biggest misconceptions about divorce and the truth behind them.

Both Spouses Must Appear in Court 

Some of the most dramatic scenes in the media portray two spouses battling it out in the courtroom. While this may happen in other states, it is quite rare in Florida. State law requires most spouses to attempt to resolve their disputes during mediation before going to court. During mediation, or even outside of this process, you and your spouse can negotiate a fair settlement without the need to go to trial or appear in court. Mediation also allows you and your spouse to create customized solutions, instead of leaving all decisions for a judge to make.

Weekend Schedules are the Only Timesharing Option 

Florida law no longer uses the term ‘child custody’. Instead, the term ‘timesharing’ is used. In the media, timesharing is usually portrayed as one parent only having access to their child on the weekends and so, many people think that is the only option. This is not true and timesharing issues are far more complex than that.

While one parent may only see their child on weekends, there are many other options available, as well. The parents may agree to a 50/50 schedule with the child spending four nights of the week with one parent and three with the other. The parents would then rotate weeks, so each has the same amount of time with the child. Family dynamics are unique and you will have to consider living arrangements, work schedules, and other factors when creating your timesharing plan. Above all, your child’s best interests should always be the most important priority.

You Cannot Reconcile After Initiating Divorce

Sometimes, people start the divorce process and then reconcile with their spouse at some point during the process. It is a misconception that you cannot reconcile after initiating divorce. If you reconcile after your divorce is final, you will no longer be married and so, you will have to remarry if you want your marriage to be official. If you reconcile before your divorce is finalized, you can simply stop negotiations and other elements of the process and continue on as a married couple.

Our Divorce Attorneys in Tampa Provide Sound Legal Advice 

Ending your marriage is hard enough. Getting a divorce without fully understanding the laws and realities that will govern your case will only make it more difficult. At All Family Law Group, P.A., our Tampa divorce attorneys can help you through the process and advise you of your options so you can make informed decisions. Call us today at 813-672-1900 or contact us online to schedule a free consultation and to get the strong legal representation you need.  Se habla Español.

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