How Can I Make the Most of Mediation During My Florida Divorce?

Mediation is typically required in Florida divorce cases that involve the division of property, time-sharing, and child support issues. The goal of mediation is to help the two spouses reach an acceptable agreement without the need to go to court. Although some spouses begrudgingly participate in mediation, the process has many benefits. Additionally, there are some tips that can help you make the most of mediation.

Work with a Tampa Mediation Attorney 

Mediators are neutral third parties and their only goal is to help the two spouses communicate and compromise so they can reach an ultimate resolution on all terms. Mediators do not make any final decisions, nor do they offer legal advice. As such, it is critical that you work with a Tampa mediation attorney who can advise you of your legal rights and options. An attorney can also ensure any settlement reached in mediation is fair.

Be Prepared 

One of the best ways to ensure mediation proceeds smoothly is to come prepared. Your attorney can advise you on the documents you need, including tax returns, bank statements, credit card statements, life insurance policies, and more. Your attorney will also review this paperwork with you so you have a clear understanding of your financial situation and other relevant facts.

Be Open to Communication 

Mediation should never be combative, as that can prevent the spouses from resolving all divorce terms. Go into the process with the intention of listening to your spouse and their perspective. Do not interrupt your spouse when they are speaking, and do not be confrontational. If you can act civilly and amicably, you have a much greater chance of success during mediation.

Do Not Become Emotional 

Disputes can occur during mediation and the process is meant to resolve them. However, if you become heated and emotional, this makes it much more difficult to reach a resolution. If you become overly emotional, it can cloud your judgment, which can lead to bad decisions.

Identify Your Goals

 One very effective way to keep your emotions out of the mediation process and to communicate more effectively with your spouse is to identify your goals before you even start the process. Consider factors such as marital property that is most important to you, how much time you would like to spend with your children, and whether you will require alimony post-divorce. Understanding your goals can provide clear direction regarding when to stand firm on an issue, and when to compromise with your spouse.

Our Mediation Attorneys in Tampa Can Provide the Representation You Need 

At All Family Law Group, P.A., our Tampa mediation attorneys have extensive experience using alternative dispute resolution methods as an effective means of resolving disputes between divorcing couples. If you are considering divorce, or if your spouse has already served you with papers, we are here to help. Call us today at 813-672-1900 or fill out our online form and we will contact you to schedule a consultation with one of our experienced attorneys.

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